Traditional management is dead. Old ways of managing people and leading teams no longer work.
Conventional leadership models—rooted in hierarchy, rigid processes, and top-down decision-making—are increasingly falling short.
The tech industry moves at lightning speed. We’re experiencing the rise of the 100x Product Engineer and many leaders operate in Founder Mode.
To stay relevant in today’s fast-moving world, managers and leaders need to embrace “Vibe Leading”.
Let’s explore what that looks like in practice.
Introducing Vibe Leading
Vibe Leading is a term I’ve been thinking about recently, inspired by Vibe Coding. But it’s not just about using Generative AI to be more efficient, make faster decisions and lead effectively. It’s about tuning into the energy, emotions, and dynamics of your team—observing the vibes.
While modern leaders should embrace tools like Generative AI and Large Language Models (LLMs) to stay effective and make smarter, more tailored decisions, Vibe Leading goes beyond technology. It’s about sensing shifts in team dynamics, reading the room, and aligning emotional awareness with business needs.
Vibe Leaders use intuition, empathy, and adaptability to guide their teams—not just to keep up with rapid change, but to drive innovation that serves both people and purpose. AI is part of the toolbox, but real leadership comes from human connection.
Traditional management—rigid plans and strict oversight—often slows teams down and stifles creativity. Today’s engineering challenges are too complex and fast-moving for one-size-fits-all solutions.
Importantly, Vibe Leading isn’t about abandoning structure. It’s about blending:
Flexibility with clarity.
Empathy with accountability.
Intentional guidance with autonomy.
This balanced approach helps leaders stay attuned to their team’s energy and rhythm—ensuring they remain agile, creative, and genuinely motivated.
What Vibe Leading Isn’t
Vibe Leading isn’t about being impulsive or skipping the basics. Just like “vibe coding” can lead to bugs if done without understanding, Vibe Leading can go wrong if misused.
Relying only on intuition—without clear communication, accountability, or guidance—can cause confusion and misalignment. Vibe Leading doesn’t replace planning, critical thinking, or responsibility.
Strong leadership foundations and experience matter. Leaders need solid skills like strategy, decision-making, and conflict resolution. When done right, Vibe Leading adds flexibility and emotional intelligence to strong, thoughtful leadership.
Why Vibe Leading Matters
Nowadays, engineering teams move extremely fast—they have to. They innovate, adapt, and evolve constantly. Leaders who stick to rigid hierarchies, slow approvals, and micromanagement end up slowing things down.
Today’s engineers “vibe code”—they work using creative LLM prompts, iterate quickly, and collaborate fluidly. Leaders need to match that energy by being empathetic, adaptable, and tuned in to team dynamics.
Vibe Leaders don’t wait for one-on-one's or retros to solve problems. They sense shifts early, respond quickly, and keep things moving. This prevents issues from growing and keeps the team focused and energized.
Vibe Leading matters because it turns managers and leaders into enablers of innovation—keeping teams inspired, aligned, and ready for whatever comes next.
Core Principles of Vibe Leading
Great Vibe Leaders live by a few essential principles. These principles guide them in consistently driving innovation, team cohesion, and sustained success:
Embrace Adaptability: Recognize that uncertainty is inevitable. Swiftly adapt your strategies and approaches as conditions evolve, staying responsive and agile. And remember, change is constant.
“Adaptability is about the powerful difference between adapting to cope and adapting to win.”
— Max McKeown
Cultivate High Agency: Foster a culture where team members feel empowered to take initiative, own their decisions, and drive impactful outcomes with resilience and perseverance.
“If your ship doesn’t come in, swim out to meet it.”
— Jonathan Winters
Don’t Shield, Strengthen: Instead of blocking every challenge, help your team grow by facing them. Resilience, confidence, and problem-solving skills are built through experience, not over-protection.
“Smooth seas do not make skillful sailors.”
— African Proverb
Lead with Intent, Not Control: Clearly communicate the direction and purpose, empowering and trusting your team to find their paths to achieve shared goals without micromanagement.
“Never tell people how to do things. Tell them what to do and they will surprise you with their ingenuity.”
— George S. Patton
Develop Leaders, Not Heroes: Invest in building leadership qualities across your entire team. Great leaders multiply their impact by nurturing more leaders, rather than relying on individual heroics.
“The function of leadership is to produce more leaders, not more followers.”
— Ralph Nader
Combine Strategy and Tactics: Pair strategic vision with rapid execution to keep your team aligned and moving fast. This balance drives high-quality results without losing sight of the bigger picture.
“Strategy without tactics is the slowest route to victory. Tactics without strategy is the noise before defeat.”
— Sun Tzu
Lead with Principles Over Processes: Use clear, adaptable principles to guide your team, enabling innovation and smart, independent decisions without relying on rigid rules or processes.
“Policies are many, Principles are few, Policies will change, Principles never do.”
— John C. Maxwell
These principles help Vibe Leaders navigate complexity, foster genuine team connections, and amplify collective business impact.
Becoming a Vibe Leader
Vibe Leading starts with self-awareness and intention. Reflect on your current leadership style—are you relying too much on rigid rules? Are you tuned in to your team’s emotions, needs, and dynamics?
Be open about your goals and invite honest feedback. Talk about the values you want to lead with—like adaptability, agency, and empowerment—and involve the team in shaping those principles together.
Stay flexible. Pay attention to the signals your team sends, and regularly check if your actions match your values. Embrace change with resilience and lead with calm confidence, even in uncertain times.
Empower your team by trusting them with clear responsibilities. Encourage ownership by letting them take initiative and make decisions. Guide when needed, but avoid jumping in to fix everything.
Balance long-term vision with day-to-day speed. Keep your goals clear, but stay open to adjusting your path as things evolve.
Finally, grow future leaders. Mentor intentionally, celebrate team wins over individual ones, and foster a culture of continuous learning and shared success.
Final Thoughts
Vibe Leading isn’t just a new style. It’s a necessary shift for leading in today’s era of rapid innovations.
To succeed, you need to connect with your team on a deeper level. Pay attention to their needs. Adapt as things change. Empower them to grow and do their best work.
When you lead this way, you move beyond managing tasks. You start inspiring innovation and real growth.
The future of leadership is about unlocking the energy, creativity, and potential of your team to achieve outstanding business results.
Embrace the vibe: lead with intention, empathy, and clarity. Build teams that don’t just perform—they change industries and redefine success.
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Love this, Rafa! I completely agree—being in tune with your team is key to effective leadership. I really like how you’ve used “vibes” as a creative spin on emotional intelligence and empathy!
Interesting concepts 😄 I would add that since vibe coding is based on LLM doing all the heavy lifting, the foundation of vibe leading would require the team to be skillful and independent enough to handle issues with minimal guidance. In that case, leader are able to start leading the team with “vibe/prompt” and adjust based on the outputs.